又到了这个时候

又是这个时候，
为什么是我呢？
我很累，
怎样才能不累呢？
看见很多事物都随着自己的改变而改变。
好遗憾，在我没变之前没有去珍惜它。
怎么突然这样呢？
我还是以前那个我吗？

Standard ?

Is there any standard thing in the world?
Perhaps when you are talking about the language, there's no such standard or world recognized standard.
Even the ranking of the university reported by the QS also not a standard one. So where is the standard?

For language, we can only say locally standardized. Malay and English are locally standardized. Singapore and Malaysia use British( as from British colonial ) and America uses their own one.

Malay is also the same. In Malaysia, the Malay language is standardized by Dewan Bahasa dan Pustaka, an authority( can I use authority instead of Body? ) and we,  the rakyat who learn the language in schools have to follow every changes made by DBP.
In Indonesia, they have their own style as influenced by the Dutch colonial. And believed that Indonesia Malay is the most original Malay because the Malay language in Malaysia has been changed from time to time and also many words are borrowed from English or Portuguese.

QS in the making of the rank of university also has their own rating. So, everything which is standardized is just for reference.
For chemical substance, there's a standard name for the chemical name from IUPAC.
Standard is not standard...So, for something, we don't have real standard, so, we follow the local standard.

Funny conversation and situation

Situation A:
A: hey, can I ask you something?
B: Yeah, sure. What is that?
A: Is there any sponsorship easy to get cash?
B: erm..yea..like Hong Leong Foundation, CLCF, etc..
A: Hong Leong?? how to say in chinese?
B: Hong Leong is 丰隆，丰胸的丰，隆胸的隆...
A: -.=""

Situation B:
One day, there's a friend of mine, made a silly joke in the website and annoyed other friends. In fact, he was just fooling around and didn't take note of the consequences. Anyway, he decided to stop playing those kinda things.
In the end, when he logged into the account and the website asked the reason why he terminates the usage. His reason is ------ I am an annoying person -------

Situation C:
In the working place, there're a lot of people with different virtues and attitudes. One day, one of my colleague told me about his friend's wife story. It sounds like this..
"I was really regret of not accompanying my wife into the giving birth room." "Why?" My colleague asked.
"Coz, I forgot to ask the doctor in-charge to sew few more needles...sigh" ........

友谊-这种感觉不会流失

读了同事的部落，看到他终于找到了靠岸，也肯踏踏实实地交个女朋友，真的替他高兴。
不是说我羡慕还是妒忌，我承认以前是那种人，现在，我什么都不理了。
感觉这种东西很难说，朋友/家人都叫我找个，我就和他们说：“放心吧，我会慢慢来的。缘分嘛，说不定下一秒就是了。”

对朋友（异性）难免都会有好感，但是，这种感觉不会流失的。
因为，相信科学的你们都知道正负相吸的道理。这也是在我们日常生活中肯定一定有的感觉。
知己也好，情侣也好，都是从朋友开始，而朋友的感觉是不会流失的。

相信现在，他已经明白了这个道理，人长大了应该要踏踏实实地找一位和他共事共苦共甜的伴。
很高兴，同事们结婚都会请我去。凑个热闹也好，总而言之，人，就是要开开心心过日子。
无论身在沙巴，英国，KL，还是Sarawak的你们，我们这份友谊的感觉不会流失的，我都永远相信。

是的，我相信

《欲望少一点，幸福多一点》

你有欲望吗？你的欲望多吗？或者你的欲望就和宇宙一样大呢？
但是，欲望太多只会把人拖下来，成功之路被中断..
那么，如果你的成功之路被中断了，你幸福吗？

多一点豁达，少一点狭窄；
多一点宽容，少一点执着；
多一点潇洒，少一点固执...

都写在这本《欲望少一点，幸福多一点》
是本好书，希望大家有空可以看一看~~~